With the rate at which I am now writing and seeing things on wife matters, I just might also go into marriage and relationship counseling. For real, this marriage of a thing is no joke at all. You know, a few days back, I was coming back from a church service and I saw a lady who used to be interested in me, in fact, all she wanted was for me to commit to her, even after claiming she had been dating another guy for over 5years. It was true, I did come in contact with the innocent guy who happened to work in my bank, I mean, the bank that I bank with (it’s not yet my bank). Each time I went there and I saw this guy at the counter, I felt pity for him, he looked so innocent, so I decided not to have his heart broken. Instead, I broke her own heart, turning down her offer and disappearing. On seeing me again, she just kept on calling me “fake guy”, she was even still trying to hit on me again, but I just had to dismiss her. Well, I never said that’s exactly how it all went down, but that was on a lighter mood. I don’t need any dream in this case, she is a stamped no-go-area for me.

The Dreams

Last episode, I talked about “My wife not to be” in which the future about my relationship with a certain girl was revealed to me through a dream. This time, I am talking about “My wife never to be” because in this case, I was warned twice, on two different occasions about this girl. Of course, I am not blind, each time I go out, my eyes always go to and fro, that means that after that girl, I still definitely saw another; but this time, emotions were flying all over the place.


Dream 1

The funny thing is, I was so into this girl, I didn’t even want to pray at all so that I wouldn’t see anything. I didn’t want anything to spoil my show at all. She was pretty and …, you know what I mean? Nevertheless, one faithful night, I slept and had a dream (like I said, I didn’t pray at all). In this dream, it was revealed to me that she had feelings for me, but didn’t want to show them, she later acknowledged and we were together. We were then walking across a street, when a van just sped to our front and stopped, a group of guys came down and took her away from me. They put her in the van and carried her away. It was like there was nothing I could do about it, it seemed like it was the end, like I was never to see her again. I started crying, the desolation I felt was real, it was so serious that I literally woke up with tears in my eyes. It was that serious. Oh, I forgot to mention, she was a colleague at work. On getting to the office, I immediately started seeing the confirmation of that dream; the end result was desolation. I was still trying to do a work around, but the facts were very clear before my eyes, this girl was not mine, and if I maneuvered my way in, I would only end up in deep desolation, completely worse off.


Dream 2

Wife never to beI then had another dream about this same girl. This time, the desolation was even far worse than the first. In fact, this one was crazy. I, she and her sister were in a future generation turbo car, the car just kept moving and moving, while we were having a nice time in it. It was like we were in the farthest future, a lost world or space. I wasn’t mindful of any of that at all, because we were in the car having a nice time. The next thing I knew was that the car had taken us to a place that seemed like a desert, or the end of the world. It stopped and the next thing was I had to get down. It all seemed like that was the only option for me, it just didn’t make sense at all. I came down, they waved their hands and the car zoomed off. There I was, as desolate as desolation itself, in the middle of nowhere; the only thing that saved me was that it was a dream, I escaped by waking up.

When I saw the first one, I only said “Maybe she’s not mine” but after this second one, I said “My wife never to be”.



All that glitters is not gold. All physical things are governed by the spiritual, that is why the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds (2 Corinthians 10:4). Jesus said, “Thy will be done on earth, as it is in heaven” (Matthew 6:10). Whether you like it or not, to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace (Romans 8:6). Dreams still remain our major spiritual feedback mechanism, take it or leave it.

If God didn’t show me those dreams, I would have gone ahead with that girl because I liked her so much, but God reveals His secret things unto His servants (Amos 3:7). Dreams are as real as reality; I have woken up from a dream with my heart beating faster than the speed of light. I have woken up from a dream with my bed drenched with my tears.

God is speaking and He really wants to speak to us and show us things, one of His oldest and dearest means is through dreams. It is the only time when we are free from the affairs of this world to be available for divine communication with the spirit realm.

Check your dream life today.

Cheers and God bless you infinitely!!!

© 2013 Godsplan Uzoaga.

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